Pizza Party at Johnston's. Special guest appearance by Henry & Barb!

Photos By: Lori Johnston




It was a beautiful day in the neighborhood!!!
We love you Henry!!!

Making The Rounds

Thanks to all you guys for your comments, prayers and well wish's!
Henry made it to Uncle John's Halloween party Saturday night.
Him and Grandpa were wheelchair to wheelchair.
Very touching!
We are planning an employee pizza lunch next week and
hoping Henry can make it!!!
Then we can take our annual employee company photo,
with him in it, and all the guys would love to see him too!!!
-Lori Johnston

Welcome Home "Tree Man"!!!

"Think Like a Tree"



Soak up the sun

Affirm life's magic

Be graceful in the wind

Stand tall after a storm

Feel refreshed after it rains

Grow strong without notice

Be prepared for each season

Provide shelter to strangers

Hang tough through a cold spell

Emerge renewed at the first signs of spring

Stay deeply rooted while reaching for the sky

Be still long enough to hear your own leaves rustling.



-Karen I. Shragg





This poem made me think of you Henry.

Love,

-Brenda

Home Sweet Home

Henry got home this morning. He was very excited and emotional. The things we take for granted like color...he was soo happy to see the color in his house. Furniture is a little low so they will play around with lifters and what not. I am sure there will be a few things he will have to adjust but right now he is nothing but happy. He wants to try and pick peppers tonight...now that sounds just like Henry! Thank you everyone for all of your thoughts and prayers, love and concern. Our family has been very blessed with his recovery and family and friends.

19 Oct

From Barb Rafferty:" Henry had a beer at sullivans pub on sunday! can you believe it!!!! he even stood at the bar for about 5min.!!!! hopefully in 2 wks. he will be home!!! God is great!!!!!!!!!!"

He walks video.

Let's Get Physical Physical Henry's gettin Physical

Bonnie and Hank came to Ohio for our son's birthday and had lots of wonderful things to say about Henry's recovery.

This a picture recently taken of him on the treadmill!! WOW He is working very hard to get home. They said he is just exhausted everyday.

I am going to upload a video of him walking this week(we have to edit other patients out) Stay tuned!

One small step for man ...7 foot for Henry

Great Fantastic Yes the news is true Henry walked 7 foot today unassisted! WOW I can not believe the progress therapy and determination makes!!!!!!!

He is now just like everyday wiped out!

29 Sept - Standing Tall

I talked to Henry tonight on the phone. He stood for the first time on his own today. It started by the therapist and Barb holding him, then a few minutes later they helped him up and let go while Henry stood by himself. They then repeated it a third time in the hour. He said it was good to wear shoes again and stand but it was very tiring. Great to hear though. It is now expected that he will be home before Halloween. A long road yet to go but going home would do wonders for Henry. Everyone keep their fingers crossed and pray that he makes his Halloween homecoming.

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He's moved on up to the top to a deluxe room in Health South

Well Henry is in his (private) room at Health South. His schedule is very precise and crucial to his physical and occupational therapies. Health South has very strict visiting hours M-F 3-8pm and Sat-Sun 10-8pm.

Basically from what we know he has a very busy schedule other than during visiting hours. The doctors, therapists and Henry are working very hard to build his muscles so he can start moving on his own etc. We all know the common goal is for Henry to get back to as normal life as possible or better. It has not quite been a week so we have not got any details as to how he is feeling or progressing yet. Dan did speak with him on Wednesday evening and he was in good spirits and looking forward to the work ahead of him knowing that is what is going to get him back home. Although he did mention at that point he was none to impressed with the nursing staff but liked the doctors and therapists.

Any visitors and all phone calls need to adhere to the visiting hours schedule. Please keep in mind he has to eat lunch and dinner in the dining room. We are not sure when dinner typically is Henry could tell you if you call.

Health South

143 E. 2nd St

Erie PA 16507

Room 218

814-878-1418

21 Sept

Henry is being moved to Health South today where he will start undergoing serious physical therapy. He is mostly to the phase of muscle building only except his left knee is still locked and moving his right elbow is extremely painful. He is in good spirits though and mentally preparing himself for a lot more movement.

Moving Along

Well not a whole lot of detail but wanted to give some updates of what I do know.

Henry has been starting to work his muscles. Not only in his legs and arms but his whole body. He was immobile for so long he even had to strengthen his neck to have the ability to hold upright. The Dr's and nurses get him up in a wheelchair at least once a day and he has a new bed that rotates to an upright position to help him work on standing. His left leg is locked and they are for sure if it will work out the more he has physical therapy or if it will have to be surgically done.

I hope to have more info over the weekend so I can give more details.

"FRIENDSHIP"

Mike, Brian, Jamie, Troy, Mark, Todd & Henry

You are not alone in this!

As brothers we will stand,

and we'll be there to hold your hand...

EVERY STEP OF THE WAY!!!

We will ask the night

to lose it's sight,

until the sun can light your way home.

We will move mountains for you,

our strong shoulders will hold you up...

We Will Be Your Ladder To The Stars!!

FRIENDSHIP: an attachment to a person by,

esteem, respect and affection

Surgery Done!

Just got the phone call....Henry is out of surgery. Everything went well, he will be staying on the 8th floor at Hammott until he is medically ready to go back to Select Hospital. The bar is off the pelvis, they worked his knee and elbow. The elbow is giving him a great deal of pain so he will probably be heavily medicated the rest of the day and trying to rest.

Henry will be starting alot more movement over the next several weeks including physical and occupational therapies. He is going to be all kinds of sore and in pain but that is still wonderful news on so many different levels.

I will keep everyone updated as I hear new news. Have a Great Week!!

What you have all been waiting for....Drum Roll PLEASE

Henry is on the next step to recovery!

On Tuesday September 7th Henry will go to Hammott for a surgery to remove the stabilizing bar from his pelvis and work on his left knee. His left knee is the leg that was degloved and he has not been able to move that leg so it has locked up and they believe has some calcification.

He got to sit up some tonight, well not quite upright because he does still have the bar. He was moved to the side of the bed and got to put his feet on the ground!!! After 2 months of laying down he did get a bit lite headed and his legs numbed up a bit but what a great step.

We are soo excited to hear Henry is moving to the next stage to recovery. Of course with each new step there is going to be pain and mental preparedness. I am sure it will be a shock to realize the little thing he has always done will take some work for a little while. We all know Henry is very strong and we ask everyone just to keep on praying for his strength and determination to help through the next phase.

Sorry the update took so long!!

Corry Journal- August 31st

Tuesday, August 31, 2010 2:33 PM EDT

" Hometown: Helping Henry Rafferty "
A benefit for Henry Rafferty of Lawrence Park was held Saturday at the American Legion Post 237 pavilion in Union City. Rafferty, a graduate of Union City Area High School, is recuperating at Select Specialty Hospital in Erie after a car slammed into him at Sarah A. Reed Retirement Center while he was looking at the condition of a tree for his job at Johnston’s Evergreen Nursery. Rafferty’s wife, Barb, left, and his mother, Bonnie, right, of Union City, show some of the many items that were donated for a Chinese auction, including baskets of fresh vegetables donated by Bonnie Rafferty’s brother.

"Yes Virginia, (or Henry in this case) There Is A Santa" And, boy did he come eary this year!!!

What An AMAZING Day!!!!!

I prayed for the following things for Saturday:
1. please let the day be beautiful
2. watch over everyone, and keep them safe
3. let the spirit of the day be filled with kindness, generosity and patience
4. give stamina & strength to all the workers & volunteers
5. let there be enough food & drink for everyone
6. no blow-outs with the electricity
7.no fights, arguments, or disagreements, and no negativity of any kind
You know what? God answered every single one of my prayers!!!!!
(the most important prayer answered, Henry's life & his recovery!!!)

Thank you, number one to God,
and to all who came out to support Henry & his family!!!
(I think over 1200 people came)

To all the volunteers who helped out,
(to many of you to name!!!)

to everyone who donated money, food, raffle & auction items,
( don't know if I should give the exact amount of the money raised, so I will just say, it was a lot!)
can you believe we had food, pop & water left over?

to the bands & DJ for the great entertainment...

you all sounded great & did a fantastic job!!!!
(and they all performed for free!!!!)
REFUGE
DANA WILLIAMS
BRIAN BUTLER & FRIEND (sorry friend, I didn't get your name)
JOYFUL NOISE
SOUNDWAVE- DJ TOM McCALL

And a big THANK YOU to the friends of Henry, who started this benefit!!!
(Brian, Jamie, Mike, Troy, Mark & Todd)
& their wives, who did all the work!!! ha,ha,haaa
(Carrie, Marcie, Chris, Paula, & Carrie)-yes, there are two Carrie's, i didn't mess that up LOL!
-here's how they go together:
Brian & Marcie
Jamie & Paula
Mike & Carrie
Troy & Carrie
Todd & Chris
Mark & his dog Joe (Joe cleaned up after everyone! ha,ha,haaa)

And for Henry himself...thanks for skyping in throughout the day... it gave us all the lift we needed, to see your smiling face!!!!!!!!


THANKS!!!!!
-Brenda

Over the river and through I90 to Bonnie and Hanks we go...

Dan and I are leaving this afternoon to help do whatever we can. We know everyone has worked their tailends off and as time gets closer it is getting very emotional for everyone.

We are expecting a very large number people, so if you get stuck in a little traffic sit back and enjoy the scenery. Hopefully that will not be bad but if we have some hectic times, which is bound to happen, just remember this is for a good cause.

I was able to view Henry and Barb just a minute ago on the news, wsee.tv home page top news. Boy was that emotional!! I have emailed the station and hopefully we will have and be able to post the news clips on the website soon. Keep your fingers crossed.

Again Thank you from the bottom of our hearts to everyone that has helped and contributed to make all these wonderful things come true for Henry and our family. We can not ever express the gratitude and the deep emotion we have for everyone!

See you soon Dan Mechelle and Conall

News Clip

If anyone gets a link to the news clip from Wed evening news with Henry and Barb PLEASE post it or send to Dan or I. We would love to see it!

"A Brothers Love"

They say every picture tells a story...

Do you see what I see?

A Hero shines in his eyes.
You sense his heart growing bigger & bigger with all the
love it holds for his big brother.
You feel the connection (deeper than blood), that ties
these two together.

When the accident first happened, Dan & Mechelle were by Henry's
side for a week.
It was hard for them to go back to Ohio,
to their home, their jobs, their normal routine...
Because, nothing was normal anymore!!
Henry was all they could think about...
Will he be okay, will he walk again,
will he be the same Henry we know & love?????
I believe, YES is the answer to all these questions!!!!!
Thank you Dan & Mechelle,
for sharing your photos, stories,
your laughter & tears!!!

Love,
-Brenda

BFF's

(Brothers & Friends...Forever)

News Interview

There will be an interview of Henry and Barb on WICU 12 @ 5PM and WSEE 35 @ 6PM on Wednesday Aug 25th.

Benefit Directions

Here is a my attempt at directions for those that have asked.

For those traveling from the North or Erie:

Take either PA Route 97 or 8 South.

Both will take you to Main St. in Union City

For those traveling from either East or West:

US Route 6 will take you to Main St. in Union City

In Union City:

Main St will take you through the center of town.

The intersection of West High St and Main St is located downtown. There is a Rite Aid at this intersection.

1st Ave is the first right off of West High St.

Hope this helps.

See you there!!

Hello Everyone!

Well everyone has been sooo busy getting everything together for the Benefit not a whole lot of posts have gone up.

First we are very appreciative of all the help, Dan and I can not wait to get there and see all the progress. For the Benefit and Henry.

For those of you who can not make the Benefit we will be taking pictures and posting them on the website. For those of you on Facebook he will probably be doing mobile updates and uploads during the Benefit so make sure you are checking A Benefit for Henry Rafferty or Dan's Wall. We will also give some detailed updates about Henry. We know he is getting stronger everyday but we will be sure to get more details to share.

We look forward to seeing everyone and having a great time...Although I am told we are being put to work!!!

Benefit News

Just so you know...

Admission to the benefit is $10 for adults
**(including All volunteers, & family)
"No Freebies Here"
Ok, that's not true...
Children, ages 15yrs & younger, "Your A Freebie"!
(does NOT include any adult with the mindset of a 15yr old,
I tried it already, it didn't work...ha,ha,haaaa)

If you plan on donating items to the Chinese auction,
we are asking, if it's possible, to have those items turned in by
the night of Wednesday the 25th!
Contact the following people for info:
Brian-814-440-1528
Mark- 814-572-3771
Mike- 814-438-3501

Here are some of the things we will be raffling off as:

"Big Ticket Items"

1. Thomas Kincaid Print/ signed & numbered- valued at $800-$1000
2. Two Steeler Tickets (Pittsburg vs Carolina- Thursday, September 2nd/ 7:30pm...
seats are in the end zone opposite the ketchup bottle)
3. Wooden Bench, Table & Chair set/ made by Hank Rafferty- valued at $500
4. Hand Carved Cedar Lighthouse/ made by Hank Rafferty
5. Dulcimer (musical instrument)/ made by Terry Pattison- valued at $400
6. Wooden Intarsia Duck Pictures- valued at $250
7. Sterling 14k Neck Piece/ made by Carrie Magee/ valued at $200 or more
8. Tanning Basket/ by Sunspot Tanning- valued at $255
9. Framed Michael Budden Duck Print/ signed & numbered

***We are still needing helpers to work the benefit,
especially in the areas of:
Parking
Kitchen
Selling Admission Tickets at the Front Gate
(please make contact if you would like to help, so we can
put you on the schedule!!!)

Also, we are still accepting food, drinks, buns,and side dishes (pasta salad,
potatoe salad etc...)
someone will be at the Little League Fields the evening of ;
Friday the 27th from 3pm-7pm if you would like to drop off any food items.

Thank You!!!
-Brenda

A Nice 1st Anniversary

Thank you to all that made everything possible for Henry and Barbs 1st Anniversary. I spoke with Barb last night and they had a wonderful, emotional and well needed romantic time together.

Happy 1st Anniversary Henry & Barb!

"AT LAST, MY LOVE HAS COME ALONG"
---------------------------------------------

It may be a song title, but when it comes

to Henry & Barb....

No words have held more truth!!!!!

(take a look)

Get your News Here!! Get Your News Here!!

There seems to be alot of information but I am going to attempt to put it in some kind of order...hope you can follow me!!

Henry News

• As you know Henry is at a new Hospital and doing very well, his Aunt Marsha works there and has spread the word. Also his first nurse went to school with him. God is keeping him surrounded with loving people.
• Sunday August 15th is Barb and Henry's 1st Wedding Anniversary ! Although they are quite gracious of all the friends and family keeping Henry company, we would like to ask everyone to please please leave the hospital before 3pm no matter what Barb or Henry says they need some alone time. Thank you in advance.
• A Donation Account has been set up at Northwest Henry Rafferty Recovery Fund. Donations can be made at any location. Going forward for the benefit and Donation account if you could let anyone know checks are to be made out to the Henry Rafferty Recovery Fund, they can also be sent to Henry Rafferty Benefit PO Box 505 Union City, PA 16438

Benefit News

• We need workers PLEASE PLEASE. We need volunteers to sell tickets serve food work the auction etc. We are trying to schedule people in 1 hour increments. We are now expecting 1000+ people throughout the day!Please contact Bonnie, any of the contacts on the Benefit flyer below or send a comment to post and we can get you in touch with the right people
• There will be a gun raffle at the Benefit. The winner gets to choose 1 of 3 different guns(only 1 winner and choice of 1 gun). Each ticket is $5.00 and can be purchased at the benefit or in advance at Johnston's Nursery wholesale office on Wales Rd. The winner will get to choose from a Henry Goldenboy 22 long Rifle or a Remington 770 camo, stainless with scope(30-06), 270 or a Stoeger P350 camo,12gauge, 3.5in pump. The drawing will be at 8pm at the Benefit but the winner need not be present to win. **If anyone is interested not in the area please contact Dan or I and we will ensure you can purchase tickets
• There is also going to be a signed and numbered Thomas Kinkade print "Winter Wonderland" the value on this print is currently $800 to $1000! Information about Raffle tickets to come.
• There will be the following bands playing at the Benefit; Refuge, Dana Williams Band, and Joyful Noise(the band Henry belongs to at the church). In between bands we will also have DJ Soundwave Tom McCall.

Now an awesome story. Bonnie had a lady come in the wholesale nursery today. The lady was bringing in a poster for a Golf Scramble Benefit for her husband Gary Kane who died last year. Bonnie told the lady she would speak to John about it and see if the Nursery could sponsor a hole and get back to her. The lady said she also wanted to let them know that all proceeds were going to 2 people in the area in need, one is a little 2 yr old girl with cancer and the other Hank Rafferty. Bonnie at this point began to cry and said do you mean Henry Rafferty and she said Yes. By this time Bonnie was sobbing and she looked at the lady and said "That is my son".

So if anyone golfs or would like to sponsor a hole please call

Scenic Heights Golf Course 1-814-739-9700.

Sept 4th Golf Scramble Benefit for Gary Kane

4 man scramble $220 per team

Sponsor a hole for $60 or 1/2 hole $30

7830 Knoyles Rd Wattsburg, PA 16442

Henry has left the building....

Great News! Henry has moved to a new facility, Select Specialty Hospital. Select Specialty is a smaller hospital where he will begin the next phase off his recovery. The hospital is located at 252 West 11th St in Erie. Henry is in room 208, please sign in at the front desk before going up.

Barb has been taking good care of Henry and has seen his leg wound where all th skin grafts were done and says it looks great. His pelvis still has 3 to 4 more weeks of healing. He is starting baby steps with physical therapy to help rebuild his muscles.

All in All this is just miraculous how Henry survived and healing so well. Thank you to everyone for the constant support love and prayers. I hope to meet you all at the Benefit on the 28th.

I just wanted to share something Brenda had posted on her Facebook page! Thanks for being such a good friend and great supporter of Henry his family and friends




Henry Rafferty, a friend of mine who I work with at Johnston's, was hit by a car last week.
He sustained major injuries, and has a long, hard road ahead of him!
Some of you may know him from Union City School, others may know him from work.
He is known as the "Tree Man", or the "Tree Doctor", and others call him "Poncho" (as in the chief)
He is a landscape designer, who taught classes in the past, which I had the pleasure of attending. (and it was for free, he wouldn't take money from any of us at work who took the class )
He mainly works in the Wholesale office, but also helps us out at the Garden Center.
I swear, Henry knows every plant there is (and of course, by the latin name)!

Henry is, first & formost, a family man.
He has a lovely wife, (first year anniversary coming up!) and two beautiful children.
He is active in his church and the community, and is a very important part of the family buisness, you might have heard of it... Johnston's Evergreen Nursery.
He is also a talented guitar player, who has a wonderful singing voice.
He is a poet, an artist', and an all around good guy!
I have grown quite fond of this man, and his family, over the years!

Henry was at Sarah Reeds retirement home looking at a tree for a customer.
A woman lost control of her car, jumped a curb, and hit the tree, pinning Henry, and it to the building.
He will have to undergo many surgeries, and a long, and extensive recovery period.
As you can imagine, his family and friends are exhausted with worry!
Please keep the Rafferty's & Johnston's in your thoughts!
Please pray for Henry!

And also, this may sound absurd, but please pray for the woman who hit him.
From what I understand, the accident was caused by her being angry.
I don't think she did it on purpose, most likely she never even saw Henry. Her anger took over, she lost control, and devastation followed!
I guess if there is anything to be learned from this, it is:
It's ok to be angry, just don't let rage take over!!!!
It can ruin your life, and the lives of many others, a ripple effect of consequences.....

If you don't have is address, and you want to send cards of encouragement to Henry, mail them to the nursery.
His family will make sure he gets them.

Johnston't Evergreen Nursery
9865 Wales Rd.
Erie, Pa. 16510-5427

Love,
-Brenda

..........................................
"UPDATE" August 4th 2010

Henry playing guitar at a work picnic

I look forward to hearing you play again Henry!!!


Henry has had over 12 surgeries now,
on Monday, they took out the wound vacs from his leg & elbow.
(I think those were the tubes they had in for drainage)
His left leg & right elbow were the areas where his skin was de-gloved.
The skin grafts are all done, they took them from his right leg, and hopefully they all take!
He has a stablizing bar connected to his pelvis in the front, so he still can't sit up very much.
(I think his pelvis was broke in four places, and they had to screw plates in the back)
(can you imagine, not just the pain, but having to lay in one position for over a month?)

He still has room on his walls for more cards!!!! So, keep them coming please!
(he says he is not worthy of all the attention, but we know better!!)

His family & friends are having a benefit in his honor;

"Save The Date, August 28th"
go to this website for more details & ticket information.

Henry's Recovery: Benefit
landscaperrecovery.blogspot.com

Henry's brother Dan started this blog site to keep everyone updated on his progress.

Thank you all for your prayers, kindness & support!!
Love,
-Brenda

A Father's Love

The love of a father can be...

quiet, strong, determined and soft.

When his child is hurt, helpless and in pain...

the protector (like that of a bear) comes out to fight. Watch Out!!

Quiet no longer, his strength will carry you with an unyielding determination,

and the soft touch of his big heart will leave you shivering...

Love emerges & shines for all to see!

Let me show you what I mean with just two pictures:

Hank, carving at the Garden Center

This is the Angel Hank carved for his son.

She sits in Henry's room, watching over him.

2 Aug

Henry had another cleaning today that went great and they have removed all the wound vacs from his wounds. They also put his in a special chair and let his sit and look out the window for a while. I know he liked that.

The Benefit

I just wanted to take a minute and thank Brian, Mark, Mike, Troy, Todd, Jamie and their families for all the hard work they are doing for the benefit. They came up with the idea to host this benefit and are scrambling to make it happen.
I'm just the web advertiser and my wife Mechelle does most of that. Anyway, thanks to all of you and thanks for taking such good care of Henry.

1 August

Henry had a good weekend. It was really nice to be there for his best weekend yet. He looks so much better now and his mind is a lot sharper. Henry has never been much of a computer person but Mark and I have asked him to start thinking about using a computer more while he is recovering. We showed him all that has been posted and he is very thankful for all the support.
I look forward to seeing him again in a month, this weekend was too short.
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

Benefit

We are visiting Henry as I write this Post. He is doing amazing we are so excited to see him talking and eating. Dan and I had not seen him for 1 month and this is awesome. We love Henry very much and are so Happy to see he is healing.

Henry wanted to tell everyone THANKS so much for the love and support. He said he does not feel worthy. but we all know he is very worthy.

Henry will also be making an live Skype appearance at the benefit......more details to come.

Great News we now have a PO Box set up for donations to be sent for Henry's Recovery fund.

Henry Rafferty Benefit
PO Box 505
Union City, PA 16438

Also we are needing any volunteers to help work the benefit, donations for auction and for food. We are expecting to have 800 or more people throughout the day of the benefit. We will need alot of food donated to feed people. Please contact Brian Mark or Mike.

Tickets are available in advance or at the door please contact
Brian 814-440-1528
Mark 814-572-3771
Mike 814- 438-3501

Save the Date August 28th

Saturday August 28th from 2pm till 10 pm

A Benefit for Henry Rafferty

When: Saturday August 28th from 2pm till 10 pm

Where: Union City Little League Field

Ticket Cost: $10.00 adult

Kids 15 & under free

Food - Pig Roast - Non-alcoholic drinks

Entertainment - Live Bands - D.J.

Come Rain or Shine

On Friday, June 25th, Henry was at a nursing home in Erie to diagnose a problem with a Japanese Weeping Cherry. At 11:20 am he was struck by a car while standing next to the tree.

Thankfully the same tree that Henry was inspecting, levered against the wall and saved his

life, but not without cost.

Since that time, Henry has had 12 surgeries and is working hard to recover from his injuries. His

healing process will be long and intense over the next months.

Your support and prayers WILL make a difference!

Contacts for tickets & donations:

Brian at 814-440-1528

Mark at 814-572-3771

Mike at 814-438-3501

Donations and Chinese auction items are being accepted.

More info to come for out of town donations and so forth

28 July PM

The cleaning surgery went just fine. Henry recovered much more quickly this time. I talked to him on the phone on Monday, it was good to hear his voice. He gets tired pretty quick though, he has been immobile for over a month now with only one arm moving. He told me it would be nice when he can sit up again and stand. My guess is that he just wants to be able to punch his brother for posting all his business on the internet;) But thanks to you all who have followed his recovery here. I know this site has taken a load off of Mom and Barb. Thanks also to all the contributors.

Tuesday July 27th

Henry is going in for a cleaning today. Dan and I were under the impression he was done being put under the anesthesia for awhile but we were wrong. Henry still has to get the cleanings and new suction tubes put in his leg and we are assuming his elbow.

Please pray for Henry he has had a rough time coming out of the anesthesia the last couple of times. We will be there this weekend we will be able to share more details. Can't wait to see everyone but mostly Henry!!!

23 July Hooray!!!

I just got word that Henry has come out of surgery from this morning. Everything went well and he is finished with his skin grafts. Hopefully this will give him a break from the continual surgeries and he can start to heal.

Visiting Henry

July 21st 2010

Hank, Barb and Brian


Hank & Brian

54 Donors

We are very excited that specifically for Henry there were 54 Donors!!!!!! Thank everyone who came out, that is awesome.

Henry will be having a skin graft surgery on his leg on Friday and good news this could be the last skin graft. The elbow is done. Yeah!

Henry's YouTube video is up to 144 views WOW

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bh1xS6rF9y0

A mother's love

Love is all powerful, especially that of a mother's!
And, when her child is hurt, broken & suffering...
the pain that hits her comes in waves, and is almost unbearable.
The worry, exhausting,
the sleepless nights, many...
but, the strength she finds, can lift the world!
Her faith is unshakable,
and hope, she always has hope!!

Dan,
When your mom found out you posted Henry's song,
she started to cry...
How did he find the time? He has so much on his plate right now.
And, through her tears, she also said,
I have the best boys!!!

I say, Dan & Henry...
You boys have the best mom!!

Love,
Faith
& Hope

Heart To Heart Blood Drive July 19, 2010

Larry Frederick, Bonnie Rafferty, Cory Rafferty,
Chris Bowersox & Dave


Larry Frederick & Carl Rafferty

Carl Rafferty, Adella Frederick & Cory Rafferty

Everybody Loves You Henry!!!

Exciting Day at the Blood Drive

Bonnie said the Blood Drive is going very well there have been some media coverage. There also was an appearance from Larry Frederick an ex police officer that was hit by a drunk driver going 65mph. He is an advocate for blood donation and an inspiration for healing. I found a couple of links with his accomplishments since his accident. For those of you on Facebook he also has a Facebook page which might have pictures with Bonnie today.

The first is his 2010 blog and website:

http://lifeacrossamerica.com/blog/

http://lifeacrossamerica.com

http://www.americasblood.org/go.cfm?do=Page.View&pid=380

http://cjonline.com/news/local/2010-07-03/x_country_cyclists_stop_in_topeka

Also Dan Desrochers Director of Marketing at the Erie Community Blood Center left a comment on this mornings post which was very nice and appreciated...check it out!

Community Blood Bank

Give Blood

Today is the big blood drive, see below. PLEASE try to ensure if you are able to give blood it is on your "TO DO" list today. I personally have seen it mentioned so many times on the news that there is a blood shortage and never really thought it would affect me anyway. It can affect any of us at any given time lets try to make giving blood an ongoing thing in our lives. I read that 9% of Americans give blood on an annual basis and if only 1% more would give we would never have blood shortages. I think that should be very easy!!

As always Henry continues to need all your prayers and support for his continued re cooperation. As Emily stated he has another surgery today on his elbow, may God watch over Henry and direct the hands of each surgeon that repairs his broken body!

We will be returning to Erie, Union City, the weekend of the 30th. We are very excited to see everyone but especially Henry. We know he has progressed so much since the last time we got to see him. That is what is wonderful about everyone keeping us informed and connected through this blog, texts and the phone. Thank you and see you all soon.

July 18, 2010

Hi Everyone!
I just left Barb and Henry's house and had a nice visit with Barb. Again she is asking that extra prayers be sent out tonight and tomorrow. Henry will be going in on Monday for more surgery. He is supposed to be getting some more skin grafts done on his leg and elbow. Barb said the first graft went well and they were able to cover 40% of an area on his leg! PRAISE GOD!

Some Funnies For You Henry

One of the things I love about you Henry is your sense of humor!
I miss laughing with you everyday!
Your smile comes easy, your laughter is a song...And I'm really
missing that music!
Heal fast, stay strong, and keep the faith!


Whenever God closes one door, he always opens another,
even though sometimes...It's hell in the hallway!
-here's hoping your hallway gets shorter everyday Henry!!

When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila & salt,
and call me over!
(sip, sip, gulp...now where did I put the darn lemon?)

I don't care if you lick windows,
talk to the voices in your head,
or occasionally pee on yourself...
You hang in there sunshine, your special!!!!

Thank you

I wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who is contributing and following this blog. Your kind words and encouragement are reassuring to our family in these trying times. We love and appreciate every word that is spoken, typed and prayed in support of Henrys recovery. God bless you all.
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Henry's Song

Henry wrote this song, "Coming Home". He is singing both parts of the vocals. "Coming Home" is a song off the CD called Almost Home by the Praise Band Joyful Noise. Eastminster Presbyterian Church. You can also view on YouTube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bh1xS6rF9y0

A Message from Brian

Henry looks good. He ate some cereal and fruit cocktail today Barb said. They did some work on his elbow during yesterdays surgery, and are going to start skin grafts tomorrow. He says he is not really in pain just uncomfortable. I think he looks good and his attitude is good. He even jokes around a little. I said goodbye and that I would be back in a couple days, and he says "I'll be here".

Henry's Blood Drive Please Attend Mon July 19th

Blood Drive In Honor Of Henry Rafferty

Date: Monday, July 19

Time: 7:30am-6:00pm

Where: Community Blood Bank 2646 Peach Street

No Appointment is needed, just walk in!!!

Who is Community Blood Bank?

The Erie Community Blood Bank is the ONLY provider of blood and blood products to all the hospitals and patients in Erie County.

Am I eligible to donate?

Donors must be at least 16 years old with a signed CBB parental permission form, or 17 years old or older. Donors must weigh at least 110 pounds and be in general good health. Donors must be free of tattoos and/or piercings from a tattoo parlor for at least 1 year. Please eat well before donating. Photo ID is required for every donor.

Who will receive my blood?

Your donation will be put into our general inventory so that patients in Erie County can receive the treatment they need, when they need it.

***The first 50 donors will receive a free appetizer from the Plymouth. Donors can also enjoy lunch, courtesy of the Plymouth, from 11am-1pm after their donation.****

ANYONE WHO WOULD LIKE THE PDF OF THIS HEART TO HEART POSTER SO YOU COULD PRINT OUT TO HANG AROUND TOWN WORK ETC PLEASE EMAIL DAN OR I AT psuraff@gmail.com or mtrent423@yahoo.com AND WE WILL GET IT BACK TO YOU or you can click anywhere on this post and it should give you the heart to heart poster ready to be printed THIS WAY WE CAN GET AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE!!!!!!!

Thank you Cory Rafferty, Henry's cousin, for doing all the leg work to make this happen!

Still Have a Long Road Ahead

Henry is having another cleaning on Tuesday with all the medications and pain we ask that he has NO VISITORS on Tuesday July 13th. So he can rest.

Henry has been in a lot of pain since the pelvic surgery. He is pretty out of it and has not had a real good day since the surgery. We are asking if you stop by and he is resting PLEASE let him rest. Also for the time being please DO NOT call his room if you would just send a card and/or prayers.

We have all been so encouraged with how well Henry is healing, and still are, but Henry is still very hurt and he has a very long road ahead of him.

As always love to all and keep the prayers coming!!

Resting Comfortably

Henry is sleeping soundly tonight so no real big news. There is talk that he will be moving out of ICU this week. He had X Rays last night to ensure things were aligned correctly in his pelvis but the Dr's have not read or given us the results hopefully everything is in the right place and we can move on to the next area. Hope everyone had a nice weekend!

Butterfly

Henry,

You are like a beautiful butterfly,

beating its wings against a cocoon,

who emerges strong enough to fly!!

Can't wait to see you spread your wings again!

"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by

every experience in which you really stop to

look fear in the face...

You must do the thing you think you cannot do"

-Eleanor Roosevelt

On the Fence

Henry said (yes you read that correctly) that it felt "Like he was riding a fence" this morning.

All is good the pelvis is completely finished!!!!! Henry was able to speak to Bonnie and Barb on the phone this morning, the nurse held the phone to his ear. The talk is that next week they would like to start repairing his crushed elbow and begin the long and painful skin grafts on his leg.

Henry still has alot of surgeries and things to go through but with each one we are closer to getting him walking talking(more) and home.

Surgery went well

Prayers are definitely working! Henry's surgery went well. We received a text from Bonnie around 1am and the Dr had just came out to talk to Her and Barb. It sounds like the pelvis is done yeah. They pinned and plated the back part of the pelvis which is permanent and the plan is to still leave the temporary pins and bar on the front on to heal. Not alot of detail yet but wanted to ensure everyone that the surgery was successful.

The elbow will be a different day and surgery. And lots more prayers and support!

Friday July 9th Evening

Henry was finally taken back to surgery around 6:30pm for a 7hr surgery on his pelvis. The surgery was supposed to begin earlier today but was delayed for other traumas in the hospital. The day was filled with anticipation of when the surgery would begin.

Today was a bit different at the hospital for Barb Bonnie and Hank because now that Henry is aware of what is going on he also was anticipating being taken back to the O.R . I am sure he was excited anxious and very scared at the same time, as we all are, for a very serious and extensive surgery.

As always everyone appreciates the thoughts and prayers of family, friends and well wishers we do not personally know. Word of Henry's condition continues to grow each day and the support is wonderful. Ironically much to Henry's chagrin the internet has been a great source of communication and support, maybe it will change some of his thoughts and he will be doing some of his own updates soon. Take Care, Pray Hard and Stay Safe.

My visit with Henry

I went to see Henry yesterday, (hi Henry!!)

When I arrived, I saw his wife Barb, through the window of his room, reading him cards that were sent. Henry was smiling, and it was great to see! (please keep the cards & letters coming!)

So he can see them, Barb, and his mom, Bonnie have been taping all his cards on the wall in front of his bed.
He has to lay flat, so there is no pressure on the stablizing bar, connected to his pelvis.
There is a beautiful, carved wooden angel, made by his dad, watching over him, and pictures of family & friends all around.

When I came into the room, he started talking to me, man was I surprised!!
I hadn't known he was talking!! It was great to hear his voice!
Henry was alert, his color was good, and he seemed comfortable.
His mother arrived shortly after I did, and his face just lit up when she walked in!
The love in his eyes, when he looks at his wife Barb, leaves you breathless.

He has a major surgery scheduled for today, on his pelvis.
Let us pray, the doctors can do all that needs to be done, and for Henry's strength to stay the course!

We all love you Henry!!!
-Brenda

July 8th Evening

Good Evening everyone,
I just briefly got a text from Barb and she is asking that we all send up extra prayers tonight and tomorrow. Henry will be going in for a big surgery on his pelvis on Friday. Will send updates tomorrow as we get them.

July 6th pm

Henry did not have work on his pelvis today we are not sure why. He did however have his cleaning and was very uncomfortable afterwards so the nurses gave him more sedative so he would rest.

The Dr also reminded us that Henry although recouping nicely is heavily medicated. When he is communicating he will go from subject to subject, we do not want to discourage or frustrate him so follow his lead.

Tuesday July 6th

Henry gets more alert everyday with alot of questions. He has a sheet with the alphabet so he can spell out words to his visitors. He seems to feel most of his pain from his pelvis, so every time he is moved he is in great pain. He has smiled, which was great for Bonnie and Barb to see.

It has been very encouraging for the family to see him not so helpless. God Bless him he is so strong.

Henry went in for surgery around 10am. He is having his leg and elbow cleaning and some work on the pelvis. We are not sure what they are doing to the pelvis hopefully we have more details after the surgery....more to come. I would just like to say how happy I am that Henry is doing better and to be a part of such a wonderful Family. And what great lifelong friends the family has for encouragement support and love. I Love you all very much!

Prayer's & Encouragement

Henry & his family still need your prayer's.
Words of encouragement are welcomed too!
Post a comment, send a card, letter or note.
Let us all continue to show Henry our love & support!!!

If you don't have is address,
mail them to the nursery.
His family will make sure he gets them.

Johnston't Evergreen Nursery
9865 Wales Rd.
Erie, Pa. 16510-5427

5 July AM

Henry was very responsive today. His memory wasn't reseting every couple of hours and he was more like himself. I know Barb was happy to get a real hug from him. He attempted to write down some things but apparently he is not very good at writing with his left hand. He did however breathe without the respirator all day so hopefully in a couple more days he'll be able to talk.
He is scheduled for another cleaning surgery today. I hope he starts recovering from these procedures quicker, I know it takes a lot out of him.

Permissions to post

If you would like to "Post" on the blog please send me your email address and I will add to author list. We really appreciate everyones support

Authors

I welcome anyone who wants to contribute new posts to this blog. Membership to this site is free and gmail users can sign in with their gmail credentials. I, personally, would welcome any post from visitors of Henry as I will not be able to visit for a while. I know that others who have been keeping up with his recovery would welcome any additions.

Feel free to email me at psuraff@gmail.com if you have any questions.

3 July PM

Henry was very awake all day today. While he will continue to be confused about what is happening to him, he is beginning to recognize more people. He went all day breathing without the respirator and while the doctors expect that he will need to go back on it sometime tonight it is a good sign that he is fighting to get better.

Returning home

As most of you know, my family and I live out of state and after being here a week we must return home. It was the hardest thing I've ever done to look Henry in the eye and tell him that I was leaving his side. I know he will be taken care of but it is hard when I know that I can not personally stand at his side.
Everyone please take care of Henry and our family in my absence. God bless you all.

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3 July afternoon

Henry is looking much better today. When I arrived they were letting him breathe on his own for a while. He did very well. He has inherited the Marzka cough and it is giving him fits on the respirator. So beware if you visit and he starts coughing, it is not pleasant. Now with more awareness comes more confusion for Henry. It seems between the meds and his injuries, he is continually having to be told what has happened to him. For those that have seen Groundhog Day, it is very similar except every few hours Henry resets. Please don't be alarmed if he doesn't recognize you. He has bounced in and out of recognizing me over the last 2 days. That being said, please do not overload him, limit visitors to 2 at a time.

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2 July PM

The surgery is over and Henry is resting well. Everything went well and he now has 2 vacs draining his leg wound. There are no tubes going in through his mouth any more and his arm is resting across his belly. Its looking like he will continue to have these surgeries for his degloving wounds three times a week.

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2 July afternoon

Henry went into surgery at 1:30. At 3:00, the tracheotomy was complete and they were starting on his pelvis and other wounds. His abdomen is swelling into the bar so they have to readjust the bar. He is not expected to be done with this surgery until 6:00.
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2 July AM

Henry is going in at 10 for surgery. They are still planning on the tracheotomy, cleansing his skin wounds and working on his pelvis. I'd expect at least a 4 hour surgery this time.
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1 July PM

Henry rested well today.
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1 July AM

Henry continues to be agitated by the tubes but there is only one day left on the ones going through his mouth. The doctors say that if he does well during the surgery tomorrow and enough blood is available, they will work on his pelvis as well.

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30 June PM

Henry had a fairly relaxing day today. While the ventilator is getting more agitating in his throat, his meds have changed and the cloudiness in his eyes is starting to clear up. He is still strapped down to keep him from hurting himself or removing the breathing tubes.
He is not scheduled for any procedures tomorrow and hopefully gets some more rest and strength.
Friday he is scheduled for another cleaning and the ventilator will get moved to his throat. This will minimize some of the risks with staying on a ventilator. It will also, eventually, allow him to talk.
The next pelvis surgery should be early in the week.
The family was told today not to expect him to come home before Thanksgiving.
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30 June AM

Henry had a short procedure this morning to insert a small umbrella-like object into one of the veins returning to his heart. This will catch any air bubbles that may come from his leg to avoid further complications. Everything went well and he is recovering.
He has been heavily sedated since the surgery yesterday. It was a major event though and he needs the rest.

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Blood bank

There is currently a shortage of B negative blood. The local source is Community Blood Bank around 26th and Peach.

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29 June afternoon

The surgery finished at 2:30. His skin wounds are looking better. They inserted pins into the front of his pelvis and connected them with a bar. This bar is external but will be removed after 10 weeks. It will allow him to sit up and keep his pelvis stable for healing.

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Video

Video of the accident scene.

29 June AM

At about 1030, Henry went into his third surgery. They will be cleaning his leg and arm again and will begin work on his pelvis and elbow. There is currently a shortage of his blood type in the region so they can only do as much work as they have blood on hand.

The Accident

On Friday, June 25th Henry was at the Sarah Reed Retirement Center to look at a problem with a weeping cherry tree located by the rear employee entrance. At ~1120 he was struck by a red Chevy Cavalier while inspecting the tree. According to police, a 21 year old women who was just "let go" from Sarah Reed, walked out to her car, backed out of her parking spot and "floored" the accelerator. The car sped across the parking lot striking the curb which launched the vehicle toward the back wall of the center and Henry. The car flew about 10 yards, barely hitting a raised bed in the path and touched down right before the tree slamming the tree and Henry into the rear brick wall. Thankfully the same tree that Henry was inspecting levered against the wall and saved Henry's life but not without cost. He is currently in a Hamot Trauma center under intensive care. His right elbow is shattered with a large portion of skin removed. His left upper leg has been degloved, i.e. all the skin has been removed from his knee to his hip and his pelvis has been split from his spine on both sides and split in the front as well. Over the last 4 days he has been through two surgeries over 3 hours long and has remained on a respirator under sedation.
The young lady that struck him was released from the hospital the next day and is not currently facing any criminal charges.
I've started this blog to help keep everyone updated on his recovery and as a forum for support. Our family would like to thank everyone that has called or visited for all their support and encouragement.